When I was their age, I wrote in homemade diaries, I noticed boys and hung out with Lynn at the schoolyard on Tuesday evenings to watch the town's marching band practice. I got my ears pierced and my period. I started babysitting. The extraordinarily compassionate Jack Barnes was my teacher at Amherstburg Public School. Thank goodness, because it was the only time in my life I was not self-assured.
We went roller skating at the Amherstburg arena over the summer and wore homemade halter tops tied around the neck with shoestrings. I wore eyeshadow for the first time; it would have been blue. We still listened to CKLW AM radio, and the Brady Bunch and the Partridge Family were still the shows to watch on Friday night.
And funny – looking back on the movie screen in my mind, those days were always sunny.
Paige and Elaine on the cusp of teenagerhood: beautiful thing number 47.
One of the internal “snapshots” I carry around with me is the picture of me at around ten, in my grade five class with the other kids and our teacher, Mrs. Chavis, dancing to “Joy to the World” (Jeremiah was a Bullfrog). We had a dance in our classroom for an hour or so every Friday afternoon. Sometimes we square danced; sometimes we’d pick songs from the stacks of 45s some kids brought in. The kids with the afros had the biggest and best stacks of records, mostly Motown; most of us just had a few. But our favourite song to dance to was Jeremiah was a Bullfrog.
Vivian Chavis approached learning with a strong combination of creativity and discipline. She was no softie – nobody got away with nonsense in her class. But she also had a well placed sense of humour, and us kids knew it. To this day I can hear her hearty, high pitched, musical laugh.
Mrs. Chavis taught us to be aware, through dedicated daily attention to current events and history. Four years later on my first day of high school, I was the only person in my history class who knew that Mao Tse Tung had recently died. I was the only one who knew who Mao Tse Tung was, in fact, and I’m sure I must have sat there in that Grade 9 history class and thought of learning about the Chinese Cultural Revolution in Mrs. Chavis’s class and the big dragon “parade float” we made to carry around the school on Chinese New Year.
Mrs. Chavis always let us propose creative ways to express our learning. Once, Helen, Patty and I created a “Game Show” to practice question drills, during which we tried to give one good natured kid a whipped cream pie in the face. Another time we did a history project that we presented on a home-made television set, made out of a box and a roll of brown paper. Along with dancing, we had weekly choir singing, where we sang Harry Belafonte songs and old African American spirituals.
Mrs. Chavis, nearing retirement, had hair that was steely grey and turning white, offset with thick, black rimmed glasses. She wore heavy, plain polyester dresses every day. With those she wore sensible walking shoes and thick, taupe coloured nylons, which didn’t exactly match her coffee-and-cream coloured skin. My Mom, who was also a teacher at our school, said she would go into Mrs. Chavis’s classroom after school and find her colleague reclined in her chair with her feet up on her desk, laughing about some grade five related fiasco or other. My Mom said she begged her not to retire until my youngest sister reached Grade 5 and could have her as a teacher. Jane did end up having her, and Mrs. Chavis retired not long after that. She died only a few years after that. My Mom who later learned of the health problems Mrs. Chavis was having at that time, always felt guilty for begging her to stay on.
Vivian Chavis gave me many things; most importantly my ability to think and learn creatively. 30 years later she arose in my own studies in education, and I looked to her as a model when writing my own teaching philosophy. She is no doubt behind my continued desire to know, and my lifelong interest in news and current events. She got me interested in the big beautiful world, and what history teaches us.
And she forever lives on in that internal snapshot of the sixty-something, grey haired, polyester clad lady with a big laugh dancing to Joy to the World with a bunch of ten year olds in a classroom on a Friday afternoon.
Copyright © Jennifer Morrison 2009